How would you make up with someone?

[AJ the Ass Slayer]

Let's say you get in fight...what would you do to get that person to forgive you?

I mean, whether the person is your girlfriend/boyfriend, friend, or parent...

[TiniWini]

Usually, dinadaan ko sa usap.. Well, most of the time, I do, since it's the most ethical and moral thing to do..

Pero kung, let's say, wala sa mood makipag-usap, I'll give him/her some time.. Then I'd find that time wherein he/she seems to feel better na.. Saka ko sya kakausapin..

[chuna]

^ thanks for the advice. XD nyehehehehheheheh.

yeah. Im not the one asking for advice but that helped me.

AJ: I have no idea...Im sorry. I hope things get better for you.

[Shisame]

yup. time is badly needed. depende sa level ng misunderstanding. pero wala namang hindi nadadaan sa matinong usapan di ba? ^_^

[chuna]

Pano kung hindi mo alam kung nag-away ba kayo o hindi o kung galit siya o hindi?

[Shisame]

well.. kung ganon... malabo yan, sis! ^_^
alamin mo na.. now na! haha.

[mojako]

is he/she pushes you away.wait. wait in the sidelines but still continue to show him/her that your still there ready to catch him when he/she can't take it anymore.

[Blessed Devil]

There's no specific answer. It depends on your problem, really.

[chuna]

Nakakainis pag malabo mga tao. =.='

OH WELL waheheh. XD

[Crescent Moon]

It depends on your style of asking for forgiveness.

[tazmanian knight]

asking forgiveness is not my style, especially when the person doesnt seem so important to me and i know that i didnt do s0mething bad... (shortcut "pride") hahaha

[AJ the Ass Slayer]

So, what is your style?

[chuna]

I let the tension cool and wait for the right time. Or actually it depends on the person, but I call them and stuff or approach them. Ayokong mag hintay kasi baka walang mangyari.

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I officially hate malabong people. XD TAGLISH! ma-awesome!

[J e e c o .]

I think the best way is to just...give in. Swallow your pride. And be sincere. Sure it's not always immediate, but a little patience with that person would win his/her trust again. ^^

[krein]

recently, i've done a bad thing to special girl i know.. and i don't think spamming "sorry" messages at her cell won't do any good..

n e weiz, i know she won't forgive me that easy.. or she'll never ever ever forgive me at all..

i've concluded i'll stop for a moment, focusing on studies that saying sorry to a wall.. (T_T)

in your case ate, uhm, the best solution nga is conversation.. from the heart.. if he/she doesn't want any talking, wait, like moja said.. Time,.

[chuna]

That's it I ain't swallowing my pride for someone who doesn't even bother replying or even looking at you. Okay lang sana kung hindi nagpapansinan pag hindi ko siya pinapansin, pero hindi ka talaga kibuan habang nagpapakahirap kang mag conversate sa kanya *if that is a word* is too ... weird. Hindi nga yata kami nag away eh. oh well.

And now she's gonna glare at me? that's annoying. then again at least tumitingin. XD

thanks for the advice. ^^

[tazmanian knight]

AJ:

dont have one!! or maybe just ignore the person... and move on with our lives... waaahaahaa
salbahing bata!!hehehe...

[Shisame]

lol. salbahing bata! hehe. ahuh. same to taz, I really keep my pride. but umm, kung alam kong ako kasi yung mali, ako na yung nag aapproach. but Im an anti-drama person. I just say "sorry". if he/she still doesnt accept it, its fine. at least Ive done my part.

[AJ the Ass Slayer]

Hahaha! Wala lang XD I'd really like to know how people dealt with fights and how to get forgiveness

[Blessed Devil]

Well my fota got mad at me last night over the phone. And what I did was tell her that I'm sorry, and that "I'm now too shy to speak because I might hurt your feelings again", so for the rest of the duration of the phone call, she was telling me to speak and that she wasn't angry anymore.