Crimson Shallow
Angelo Degli Incubi
^uR jUst d bEzt I eVer hAd..^^
Posts: 137
|
Post by Crimson Shallow on Feb 29, 2008 7:31:21 GMT 7
Just need your tips guys!..Need it badly ahahahahah!
|
|
|
Post by Blessed Devil on Feb 29, 2008 18:01:35 GMT 7
Well if you want to know my tactic, it goes like this. (It only works if you want a serious relationship, by the way) My first step to courting a girl is to NOT court her. Befriend her for a while and get to know her in order to find out if she's someone you'll truly like. If she turns out to be someone you don't really think you could get along with, then stop right now. If she's someone that you really do like, wait for her to get comfortable with telling you her secrets, tell you stories about her life, and basically, be close to her. Then, wait for signs that she likes you. For example, she does you favors that she doesn't do for any other guy, she takes care of you when you're sick, and other sweet things that a girl could do. This is when you decide for yourself if you have a shot at her or not. If you don't think you have a shot at her, then wait some more for the two of you to get closer. If over a long span of time there seems to be no progress, then she probably only likes you as a friend. If you think that you do have a shot at her, the only thing left to do is to plan on how to tell her how you really feel. I made a post in this thread on how you can show your true feelings to someone.
|
|
|
Post by TiniWini on Mar 1, 2008 2:56:23 GMT 7
Well well.. All I can say is that.. All girls are different in many ways.. Therefore, courtship tips are on a case-to-case basis.. Depends really on what your girl likes, what she enjoys doing, etc etc..
|
|
|
Post by AJ the Ass Slayer on Mar 4, 2008 16:09:45 GMT 7
I agree with Purplicious and BD! What's your girl like? Wait...I thought you were girl too...so...you're into girls..? If your girl's a party girl, most likely she isn't into a serious approach. To approach girls like that, casual flirting works. Then you have to be all...kewl XD If your girl's a artsy girl, then try to befriend her...then when you've established a friendship, try casual flirting. Try to show interest in art (in general...as in visual art, music, etc) great taste in music will help you...lots XD If your girl's the ordinary kinda kikay girl...then befriend her first...then try casual flirting. This kind of girl's the hardest to deal with 'cause they're quite unpredictable. A lot of the sweet stuff guys usually do will most likely work for these girls. Hope that info helps!
|
|
|
Post by TiniWini on Mar 5, 2008 12:55:47 GMT 7
How bout you, AJ, what kind of girl are you out of what you said? XD
|
|
|
Post by chuna on Mar 5, 2008 23:32:32 GMT 7
Well, I think these are one of the weird cases when we all agree. So anyway, I think it's really best to be friends with the girl first. Besides, you have to be sure of what she likes and what she's like before you make a move, baka magkamali ka pa. And if you start courting without even knowing her, that'd scare her. (Or not, I don't know about all the girls.) Well, since I don't court men (or girls. ... ) I'm not sure what else to say, except maybe, don't expect too much of a good result. Don't expect at all, just hope. If you expect to have a happy ending and you don't, that'd hurt so...don't.
|
|
parksoobyung
Angelo Degli Incubi
chillax, mate! ^^
Posts: 103
|
Post by parksoobyung on Jun 12, 2008 18:05:54 GMT 7
Letters are kinda romantic. And unexpected, in this technology-driven world. At least that's what I think. I'm really weird.
|
|
|
Post by TiniWini on Jun 13, 2008 8:50:46 GMT 7
I very much agree with you.. Snail-mailing a love letter would be extra romantic.. It could be in pink stationery, with rainbow-colored inks, sprayed with some of your watermelon cologne, with tonsa cheesy lines written on it.. XD And yes, a wallet-sized picture of yourself with a small dedication at the back.. I'm sure he/she'd send one back to you as well kung ganun.. I'm about to send a package thru snail-mail Air21 to someone special..
|
|
|
Post by AJ the Ass Slayer on Jun 13, 2008 21:18:09 GMT 7
Just saw Purp's question... I'm an artsy girl. The description I wrote is like...the manual to my heart.XD
|
|
parksoobyung
Angelo Degli Incubi
chillax, mate! ^^
Posts: 103
|
Post by parksoobyung on Jun 14, 2008 22:18:08 GMT 7
Or, if you're feeling quite gutsy, go all out with telling her how you feel, like, invest in a tarp or sumthin'.
|
|
|
Post by J e e c o . on Jun 21, 2008 8:43:10 GMT 7
AJ, we're the same. But people woo~ me in some other way.
I don't like flirting. I prefer violence. Really. So with people as enigmatic as me, things go like this.
I want concern. Sympathy. Even if I don't show it. I want people to understand why the hell I do so many weird things, even if it kills us all. So if I guy is always there when I need him (even if I don't appear I do), I loosen up to him.
Of course, in ordinary cases, I love fun. I don't like serious stuff much, unless if it's necessary. Let's do crazy stuff. Blah. x3
Most of all, men who like me the way I am are the best. But jerks die. Get it?
Now there's a 20% chance that your girl isn't like me. So...woosh. ._.
|
|
|
Post by Shisame on Jul 5, 2008 14:56:59 GMT 7
primarily, show off the gentleman side. one big real score. a turn on for ladies. (but know what girls really like to their man at most of the time? ....know the means of "hot". XD
|
|
|
Post by Crescent Moon on Jul 6, 2008 12:46:06 GMT 7
^ that is the thing why i always do push ups and sit ups
|
|
|
Post by Shisame on Jul 6, 2008 13:09:11 GMT 7
rendering the perfect curves and pockets on your tummy? XD well, honestly, I preferred tall thin guys than those muscular ones. they give me the fright. Xp
|
|
|
Post by chuna on Jul 6, 2008 13:17:49 GMT 7
Well, obviously beign some hot gentleman's a big plus. But you know what else helps? being smart or funny or smart and funny. FMART AND SMUNNY <3
When courting someone, well, I guess some people are just really aggressive and some need time and stuff. Know YOUR girl. (I know she ain't me.) Basta 'wag mong bibiglain, kasi, nakakatakot yun.
|
|
|
Post by Crescent Moon on Jul 6, 2008 13:24:15 GMT 7
Just curves lang naman. I don't want to compete in Mr Universe. haha XD Gusto ko lang pampataba and I dont want fats. XD I need muscles. hehe. Like pacquiao's muscles!! XD
|
|
|
Post by Shisame on Jul 6, 2008 13:28:20 GMT 7
hmmm.. the six pocket thing. yah. those are great. XD you wish to have big muscles? I don't prefer. hekz! thin guys with hard muscles are enough. big big ones are a no-no to me. dunno why. I just don't like them. lolz! XD
I second the motion Chuna. Brain and Humour.
the BrainHumou-ers. lol.
|
|
|
Post by Crescent Moon on Jul 6, 2008 13:31:45 GMT 7
not big! just like pacquiao's muscles. Those aren't big, it's just firm muscles. No fat, just muscles. hahaha XD Pacquiao is thin XD
|
|
|
Post by Shisame on Jul 6, 2008 13:36:12 GMT 7
just the body. not the face. XD (bad-bad Blue-chan!)
hmmm... one thing I really am impressed of boys... the "Sense of Humor." not all has it.
|
|
|
Post by Crescent Moon on Jul 6, 2008 13:38:51 GMT 7
Yup pacquiao is ugly. hahaha Also have bad accent. hahaha XD. "Sense of Humor" is a key to a woman's heart hehehe. XD
|
|